Words to keep me sane

Sometimes the only action you can take is to let go.

Friday, December 7, 2007

When winning equals losing



I prevailed in the HPT argument, which is to say that I talked husband into a compromise. We tramped through the snow and cold to CVS and bought a box of my preferred FRER, with the understanding that I would use one first thing this morning. I awoke at about 3:00AM with the urge to go so the deed was done. Like so many other times, no matter how long I gave it my best "please line show up" stare, nothing happened. It was negative. I am 6dp5dt or 11dpo today. I crawled back into bed and waited for my pulse to return to normal and my breathing to slow. I am a realist, but the tantalizing knowledge of a great quality blastocyst in my uterus had my hope receptors firing. I thought this time might be different/good/real. Husband didn't wake up and I finally reclaimed sleep after a lengthy conversation with my rational self about how we will have more chances, life will go on, and how I am thankful for so many things in our lives. When husband woke up I gave him the news. He dug the stick out of the garbage and declared that he saw a faint line. Faint is being awfully generous - it is definitely an evaporation "line." So I am at work today and though thoroughly disappointed and sad, I also feel at peace. As I said in my last post, I prefer knowing to not knowing. Now we will move forward again into more of the great unknown.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi,

came to your blog from cyclesista. Have been lurking around. Just wanted to tell you that I too did a 5dt and tested on 4dp5dt and got a bfn. It was a horrible feeling. But then when I went for my beta on 8dp5dt, it was 53 and rising. Now I am 25 weeks pregnant. Just wanted to let you know that there is still hope and not to be bogged now.
Praying for your bfp.
take care,
lini

Pamela Jeanne said...

I hope the pee stick you used was broken.